Hopefully, you read the post about conversation topics you shouldn’t bring up on a first date. Now I’m going to talk about the topics you should discuss. What constitutes a good topic? Anything that She is interested in. That’s right – it really doesn’t matter if it’s a subject you give a damn about. It’s all about HER because when it’s all about HER, later in the night it becomes all about YOU – meaning you will get laid. There are a gazillion different things you can talk about on a first date, but here are the 5 best…
Why you joined the site
One thing you definitely have in common is that you joined a certain booty call website. This is the type of topic that can lead to a good discussion (so no awkward pauses). It’s also a good way to find out why a pretty girl like her needs to use a hookup site. Ask her why she joined the site and make sure you listen and pretend you respect her reasoning.
Interests listed in her profile
It’s not very common for men to read a profile before sending an email to a woman. They usually see a picture and if they like it they fire away an email to her. So she’ll be rather impressed that you actually took the time to read her profile. Pick out 2 or 3 things from her profile to talk about on the first date. It will really impress her if you’re the one that brings up the topic.
The other guys on the site
Not great at humoring women? One of the best ways to do so is to chat about the funny things you see on the site you met her on. Talk about how perverted the men appear to be. This will really get her to open up because the immature men online is something that annoys most women.
Your sexual desires (but not too early in the evening)
It’s okay to talk about sex on a first date with a girl you meet on a booty call website. But that shouldn’t be the main discussion or the first topic. Get to know her for a bit first. Make sure she’s into you and then ask her what she’s into sexually. After she tells you, share your desires with her.
Your favorite places to travel
Everyone loves taking a vacation. Just thinking about taking a trip to some awesome destination will put someone in a good mood. It’s a positive kind of topic. Again, let her speak first about the places she wants to go or has been. This shows you are interested in the things she has to say.